Tips: How to finger a woman

Tips: How to finger a woman

Fingering is one of the best ways to pleasure a female-bodied person. It allows you to give her really targeted, focused stimulation, and can be one of the best ways to help her have an orgasm. Compared to oral sex or intercourse, it’s also relatively non-taxing for the giver. Here’s what you need to know to finger a woman. Make Sure She’s on Board Like any other sexual activity, step #1 is to make sure she enthusiastically consents. Attitude is everything when it comes to fingering. So many women struggle to receive, and worry about their partner not enjoying the time and effort that fingering takes. If you’re a man, keep in mind that many women feel pressured to have intercourse be the main event, and erroneously believe that they should get the most pleasure from intercourse itself. Your partner may think of fingering as a “lesser than” activity. You can help set her at ease by letting her know you  want  to finger her, and that you have all the time in the world. Focus on staying re…